i dont know whether this is a word in oxford dictionary or
not.or am i the inventor of a new word. :--)

this is a problem which modern parents are facing. i thnk
most of you will agree to it once you read this blog..

these days parents are taking more care of children than
required.they are trying to be the best parents. for that they are after there
children to give them the best parenting in terms of education,exxtra
activities,hobbies, career and every thing.

parents right from the new born babies are searching
internet,reading books on how to become  successful parents so there children
can do best in there life.

these days children are full of studies .and the kind of
competition they are facing in schools is unbearable.in previous generations
also parents are looking after there children but children were allowed to have
some time for there own development themselves.but now so called "responsible"
are taking each and every decision of there children's life right from choosing
the career to the hobbies which they should develop.

i have read in news papers that children below 8 are also
committing suicide because of a mere failure in a monthly test exams..this
pressure of success is not developed by themselves but their parents are responsible
for it..

my idea is that parents should take care of there children.but
upto a limit.children should be allowed to do somethings on there own.also
parents should not be hyperactive.they should give their children some space to
grow.also they should look into their childs interest that what they want to do.

as it is not necessary that evry child must be a doc or
engineer.even people in other areas fashion designing,acting, etc are doing
good in society both financially and socially

so let your children live  and breathe..............